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terrible way to start the week

September 7th, 2020 at 06:32 am

Had a bbq yesterday for fathers day...I ended up so sick it was ridiculous hubby was ready to take back to the er...was only there a few days ago so I said wait...and I eventually got a little better...I almost forgot to call my dad as I was to sick..and I thought I should just do it tomorrow...but I ended up calling him..afterall it was fathers day and even though I was sick my gut just told me to do it...so I did he didn't sound well and hasn't since he had a couple strokes a few months back...but we all had a quick chat to him and then let him get off the phone...well we got a call late this morning he has had a heart attack and was heading to the hospital...then got a call that he had passed...so now I am sitting here so sad that we haven't been able to visit him due to the virus...and we will never see him again...but also so glad that I did listen to my gut and call him and got to speak with him on his last fathers day...In a way it was a relief..my dad was never sick and always active (he was 87) until his strokes which made it hard for him to do things and he hated not being able to move around much...so I know that he is happier and that he lived a full life..and that he will always be remembered and loved..not a way to start the week so hopefully the rest of the week gets better...its the first time we have had someone in our family die in 25 years I think we are all a bit unsure of what we should be doing...but one day at a time..right!

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13 Responses to “terrible way to start the week”

  1. latestart Says:
    September 7th, 2020 at 11:16 am 1599477360
    1599477360

    Sorry for your loss. Glad you were able to speak with him.

  2. East Coast Saver (Wink) Says:
    September 7th, 2020 at 01:08 pm 1599484134
    1599484134

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

  3. MonkeyMama Says:
    September 7th, 2020 at 01:39 pm 1599485945
    1599485945

    I am so sorry for your loss.

  4. CB in the City Says:
    September 7th, 2020 at 02:50 pm 1599490241
    1599490241

    Oh dear, I am so sorry.

  5. rob62521 Says:
    September 7th, 2020 at 09:00 pm 1599512444
    1599512444

    I am so sorry for your loss. Good thing you listened to your gut and called. You did the best you could under the circumstances. Prayers and comfort to you.

  6. Amber Says:
    September 7th, 2020 at 09:08 pm 1599512937
    1599512937

    I’m truly sorry for your loss and so thankful you had the opportunity to speak with him.

  7. VS_ozgirl Says:
    September 7th, 2020 at 09:21 pm 1599513674
    1599513674

    Oh no!!!! I’m so glad you got to speak to your dad on Father’s Day, your gut instinct served you well.. Very sorry for your loss and sending hugs to you and your family. May your father Rest In Peace.

  8. terri77 Says:
    September 8th, 2020 at 01:36 am 1599528996
    1599528996

    I’m so sorry for your loss.

  9. ceejay74 Says:
    September 8th, 2020 at 03:43 pm 1599579831
    1599579831

    I'm so sorry to hear it and so glad you got to talk to him one more time.

  10. GoodLiving Says:
    September 8th, 2020 at 11:26 pm 1599607594
    1599607594

    I'm so sorry for your loss. It's good that you listened to your gut. I hope your family can figure out how to grieve well for your Dad during these strange days.

  11. Dido Says:
    September 11th, 2020 at 09:51 pm 1599861110
    1599861110

    I am so sorry for your loss--and happy for you that you got to speak to him for that last time! May his memory be a blessing.

  12. Thrifty Ray Says:
    September 13th, 2020 at 03:24 am 1599967469
    1599967469

    I am so sorry for your loss. I cant imagine the pain you must be feeling. Hugs!

  13. Petunia 100 Says:
    September 23rd, 2020 at 11:05 pm 1600902317
    1600902317

    Oh, I am so sorry. {{hugs}}

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