Well my daughter came over in a lot of pain last weekend (sunday) and she thought she had put her neck/shoulder out as she had a headache as well....she went home that night (they live an hr away) and she tells me that she wants to come back in the morning because she feels bad and doesnt want to be alone while her partner is at work..all good...she comes over sleeps a majority of the day and feels a little better after having some food and pain meds...she stays home the next day..then calls around 10am she is in so much pain and wants someone there...so our oldest drives up to her, I call her several times to check on her as it is an hr away..and she is doubled over in pain, vomiting and my oldest says get in the car I'm taking you to the ER....she can barely walk, they give her pain/nausea meds and give her a chest ct...run a bunch of tests and find out she has influenza A...her partner picks her up from the hospital and takes her home and she rests and takes meds...starts feeling a bit better and she had a job interview on thursday as well (yes she works ft but doesnt hurt to look around)...she is finally starting to feel better this weekend...then on friday a family friend (more like family) passed awy from cancer it was so aggressive and rare that they were actually studying him to see what would work or not...he found a small spot in his chest on r side...end of may...3 weeks later it has travelled down his spine (he could no longer walk) and into his brain stem and by aug 1st he passed...it was aggressive...so that was sad but also we were relieved because he was no longer in pain and he got to die outside...which we loved...its what he wanted...he loved being outdoors...unfortunately my hubby and mom didnt make it in time to see him before he passed but they got to talk over the phone....he lives an hour away as well and had been going there every day or 2 to see him....it has been hard on my mom its the 3rd death for her this year for someone close to her....but next week is a new week and a new start and we are being positive because thats what he wanted!!
not a great week
August 2nd, 2025 at 07:29 am
August 2nd, 2025 at 08:33 pm 1754166833
It hurts to lose someone close to you.
Hope this next week is better!